By: Dr. D. K. Olukoya
Date: Sunday, July 3rd, 2022
Venue: University of Lagos Multi purpose hall


There are many kinds of mistakes Christians make and these happen from:

  1. Negligence
  2. Foolish curiosity
  3. Fear
  4. Being in a hurry
  5. Ignorance
  6. Following traditions blindly
  7. Peer pressure
  8. Spiritual blindness

Disastrous mistakes made by youths

1. Failure to understand that marriage is ultimately about destiny. The choice of who you marry is the second critical choice you need to make after your salvation

2. Failure to discover your purpose before looking for a partner

3. Not seeking divine intervention before stepping into relationships

4. Attaching yourself to an ungodly person

As a woman, the first sign you must look out for in a man is the fear of God. While as a man, the first sign you must look out for in a woman is the love of God.

5. Thinking that the best way to keep your partner is to give sex.

6. Thinking that the best way to make a person marry you is to become pregnant.

7. Receiving gifts without knowing the giver too well.

8. Following someone you do not know to a place you do not know.

9. Not taking your spiritual life seriously.

If you do not feed your spirit man, it will become weak and malnourished

10. If you are looking for a relationship that will end in marriage, it should not be with a married man.