Clarence Arute
From my little experience derived from the walks of life, I discovered something great which I’ll like to share with the world today. Over the years, we’ve heard of instances where some folks beat up their wives. Well, I tell you today that a real man will never beat his wife. If he does so, he’s simply not a man but a boy.
Here are some differences between Men and Boys:
- Boys run after every woman while Men take up just one woman and make her their Queen.
- Boys sit idly around waiting for manna to fall while Men work things out themselves.
- Boys are bench warmers while Men are impact makers.
- Boys care less about their looks, their words and actions while Men are meticulously conscious of almost everything.
- Boys are loud, proud and arrogant. Men are calm, humble and modest.
- Boys are amateurs. Men are matured.
- Boys are lazy thinkers and zero planners. Men are real thinkers and strategic planners.
- Boys sleep around and they are chronically unfaithful. Men are trustworthy.
- Boys can never be honest. They operate with this code: WHITE – LIES. Men are truthful and their YAY is a YAY.
- Boys are totally irresponsible. Men are very responsible and they can give cogent details about their lives.
- Boys are more or less like wanderers.
- Boys are concerned with the “NOW Syndrome” Men are conscious of the future and continually struggle to become better.
- Boys are concubine keepers! They have Amaka, Ada, Funke, Ronke, Felicia, Janet, Eno, Onome, Isioma, Isabel, Judith, Adiza, Aminat! Men stick closely to their woman and make her their TREASURE FOREVER!
- Boys are forever tied to their mother’s apron. Men are decisive and accountable for all they do.
- Boys live their lives careless of Christ. Men are addicted to Jesus.
Some boys grow up to become MEN but some forever remain BOYS.
Now the question is this: ARE YOU A BOY OR A MAN?